Nine activities forbid by Islam over unlawful relationships between men and women

News24xx.com - Every religion forbids all causes that lead to unlawful relationships between men and women. In order to prevent the ugliness and destruction caused by this unlawful relationship, the examples taught in Islam prohibit all the causes that plunge into this bad deed, among which there are nine according to Ustaz Abdullah Taslim, LC, MA

1. Forbids to met a woman who is unlawful for men and spent times together with her, including alone with a driver in the car, with a maid at home, with doctors in practice and others.

Many theorems explained this, including the words of the Prophet. no man is alone with a woman unless shaytaan will be the third. (Tirmidhi HR 2165, Ahmad (1/26)

2. Forbids to travel long distances for women without men who become her mahrams, like her husband, father, uncle or brother.

The theorems indicate this as great deal, among them the words of the Prophet: Never a woman should to travel except together with her mahrams. (Narrated by Bukhari 2844 and Muslim 1341).

3. Forbids to deliberately look to the opposite sex, according to the word of God:

Say to the believer: Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do. (QS an-Nuur: 30-31).

4. Forbids to met a woman without a mahram, even though she is the brother of a husband (in-law), based on the words of the Prophet: 'Beware of entering upon women.' A man of the Ansar said, 'O Messenger of Allah, what about in-laws?' He (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, 'In-laws are death!' (Sahih al-Bukhari 4934 and Sahih Muslim 2172)

5. Forbids men to touch women, though to shake hands..

According to the words of the Prophet: It is better for you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle than to touch the hand of a woman who is to permissible to you. (HR Thabarani in al-Kabiir 486 and ar-Ruyani al-Musnad 2/227)

6. Forbids men resembles  as women and vice versa. Based on the following hadith: From the noble shahabat, Abdullah bin Abbas, he said: The Messenger of Allah cursed men who resembled women and cursed women who resembled men.

7. It is recommended for women to pray at home and it is better than their pray in the mosque, in order to avoid the slander that arises if they are often out of the house. The Messenger of Allah said: Do not you forbid the women (to perform the prayers) in the mosque, although (their prayers) in their homes is better for them. (Narrated al-Bukhari 5546).

8. Forbids women often out of the house without any need justified in the Shari'a with the condition is not preened because it will cause slander for men. Allah says,

And abide in your houses and do not display yourselves as [was] the display of the former times of ignorance. And establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah intends only to remove from you the impurity [of sin], O people of the [Prophet's] household, and to purify you with [extensive] purification. (QS al-Ahzaab: 33).

9. Forbids women out of the house by using perfume in any forms, because it will cause a big slander. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): A woman, whoever she is, if she (out of the house) uses perfumes, then passes men to smell the fragrance, she is an adulterer. (HR an-Nasai 5126), Ahmad (4/413), charged al-Albani).

 

 

 

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