So far, most people think that men are more potential for cheating. In fact, in fact, both men and women are equally likely to cheat.
Reflecting on the case of Gisella Anastasia, women also have the potential to cheat.
However, there are of course many reasons for this.
These reasons may come from internal factors, domestic saturation, or go back to classic third person reasons.
What is clear, these reasons in turn encourage a woman to seek pleasure with other people.
So, what exactly is the reason a woman chooses to cheat?
New York University professor of human sexuality Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D explained, there are differences that underlie men and women having an affair.
Men cheat because of their desire for sexual variation, as well as situational factors such as drunkenness.
“Meanwhile, there are three top reasons women cheat, namely lack of love for their partners, desire for sexual variation, and situational factors,” said Vrangalova.
Based on the results of the interview, it turns out that women cheat because they want to gain sexual pleasure.
In fact, they (the wives) cheat because they want to maintain their relationship with their husbands.
“They believe that if they live without their sexual needs, what they have to do is destroy their family and their partner’s heart,” Walker said.
Not spontaneous Walker added, a woman’s decision to have an affair did not happen spontaneously.
Usually it happens after a woman has tried to improve herself and her marriage for years, but there is no resolution.
Meanwhile, clinical psychologist Charlynn Ruan, Ph.D revealed, the reason women cheat is feeling dissatisfied with their relationship.
The woman knows something is wrong in the relationship. Unfortunately when they encouraged their partners to make changes, they did not get a response.
When that doesn’t work, women often feel trapped in the wrong situation.
In fact, they often feel guilty for not having succeeded in changing their partners. This is what then encourages women to cheat on their partners.
“For women who struggle with guilt and feel that their happiness is not being found, they make cheating as a solution,” says Ruan.
In addition, according to relationship consultant Mark Williams, LMHC, there are women who make infidelity a form of ‘self-protection’.
The woman doesn’t want to appear hurt or abandoned by her partner. To make them feel safe and protected, the choice fell to infidelity.
Clinical psychologist Kathy Nickerson, Ph.D reveals three red flags that indicate a woman is having an affair.
“They will be very protective or secretive with their cell phones, lose money or take large amounts of cash, and lose time,” he said.
These three general signs are suspect. Especially if they had never acted like that before.
Of course good communication with a partner is needed so that the relationship can be improved.
Perhaps, by speaking heart to heart, partners can open up to each other about things that make the relationship apart.
Also, it’s a good idea to spend more time together.
This aims to restore the romance that may have long been lost.